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		<title>Math Expands the Mind Beyond Equations</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We know our math scores aren&#8217;t competitive with other developed countries. We all know someone, or we may be someone, who dislikes math. But why does an interest in math matter? Yes, being competitive in the global arena is crucial for our nation&#8217;s advancement.Â Yes, taking a math course is required to graduate. But math helps [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p style="padding-bottom: 14px;">We know our math scores aren&#8217;t competitive with other developed countries. We all know someone, or we may be someone, who dislikes math. But why does an interest in math matter? Yes, being competitive in the global arena is crucial for our nation&#8217;s advancement.Â Yes, taking a math course is required to graduate. But math helps individuals accomplish much more than an &#8220;A&#8221; on their exam.</p>
<p style="padding-bottom: 14px;"><strong>On the most basic level, learning math promotes analytical thinking skills.</strong> Dr. Vinod Menon, professor of psychiatry and neurological sciences at Stanford University, has conducted research illustrating how one year of math instruction has significant impact on the brainâ€™s approach to problem-solving as revealed through brain scans of second and third graders.<sup>1</sup> As students move through math curricula from elementary to high school, they must learn to apply what they know to new ideas and different types of problems, building more complex thinking processes. Years of math where students work through steps, identify patterns, and apply complex thought processes hardwires the brain for deeper level thinking.</p>
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<p style="padding-bottom: 14px;">Beyond brain function, <strong>studying challenging math can promote perseverance and a mindset for rigor,</strong> which helps students far beyond the math classroom. Conquering math involving deeper and more complex thinking promotes a mental agility for problem-solving that can be called upon in a variety of arenas. And the willingness to work through challenging math helps students to develop the mindset to stay and wrestle with problems longer.</p>
<p style="padding-bottom: 14px;"><strong id="internal-source-marker_0.4733010355848819">Students need math skills to think critically about finances.Â </strong>Stephen Meier, assistant professor at Columbia University, conducted a study indicating borrowers with poor math skills were two times more likely than others to experience home foreclosure.<sup>2</sup> Â While he believed the results were no surprise, he hadnâ€™t expected as great of a correlation between math abilities and foreclosure rates. The math skills necessary for sound investing are just as important for sound borrowing. Consider the â€œhouse of cardâ€ investments, ponzi schemes, hidden charges in investment portfolios, and other hard to assess situations people must wade through to make smart investment choices.</p>
<p style="padding-bottom: 14px;">But for many students, learning to embrace challenge and build upon successes earned by overcoming difficult material, <strong>breeds confidence and an internal motivation</strong> stoked by knowing that with effort, achieving what was once believed too difficult, becomes a key ingredient for success. Overcoming the challenges that math often presents provides this experience.</p>
<p style="padding-bottom: 14px;">Possessing math skills can open manyÂ possibilitiesÂ for individuals, whether it leads to making more educated decisions in everyday life or leads to a career choice in a STEM field. How do you get students interested in math?</p>
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<p><sup>1</sup>â€œAdding it Up: Research Shows how early math lessons change childrenâ€™s brain,â€ by Erin Digitale, <a href="http://med.stanford.edu/ism/2011/june/math.html">http://med.stanford.edu/ism/2011/june/math.html</a></p>
<p><sup>2</sup>â€œStudy Says Math Deficiencies Increase Foreclosure Riskâ€ by Bob Tedeschi, June 11, 2010, <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/13/realestate/12mort.html">http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/13/realestate/12mort.html</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many parents and educators equate a student&#8217;s high self-esteem with high achievement. However, according in the article &#8220;In schools, self-esteem boosting is losing favor to rigor, finer-tuned praise,&#8221; empty praise is out, and a new vocabulary that supports challenge is in.Â So, how can we work with students to hold them accountable to high expectations while [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">Many parents and educators equate a student&#8217;s high self-esteem with high achievement. However, according in the article &#8220;<a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/in-schools-self-esteem-boosting-is-losing-favor-to-rigor-finer-tuned-praise/2012/01/11/gIQAXFnF1P_story.html">In schools, self-esteem boosting is losing favor to rigor, finer-tuned praise</a>,&#8221; empty praise is out, and a new vocabulary that supports challenge is in.Â So, how can we work with students to hold them accountable to high expectations while helping them to believe in themselves to risk, to try, to grow, and to deliver quality work?<br />
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<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">Research shows &#8220;unearned praise does not help students but instead interferes with significant learning opportunities.&#8221; Students learn to accept challenge and move beyond difficult obstacles when they are encouraged by educators with words like &#8220;persistence,&#8221; &#8220;risk-taking,&#8221; and &#8220;resilience.&#8221;Â Studies also show that praising effort over intelligence is another way students can learn to enjoy challenge.Â An academic coaching question you might ask a student is:Â  on a scale of 1-10 (1=lowest) how much effort did you exert on this assignment, preparing for this test or participating in this class?Â  If the answer is under 5, the student may be developing more slacker tendencies which will impede their progress over time.</p>
<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">Rocky Hill Middle School started the school year by teaching their 1,100 students about brain development. Teaching students about how the brain makes connections and continues to grow can give some students a sense of control over their learning. Students should be encouraged to look inward to cultivate their own judgment and motivation to learn, rather than rely on outside feedback, according to Alfie Kohn, author of &#8220;Punished by Rewards.&#8221;</p>
<p>How can you help students look inside when confronted with a challenge, instead of waiting for outside encouragement?</p>
<p>How can you adjust your vocabulary to support a student&#8217;s effort instead of intelligence?</p>
<p>How would your classroom dynamic change if students had to find their own answers?Â Are you, as a parent, teacher or counselor ready to release the reigns of control somewhat so that you can become the academic coach and champion of your childâ€™s best effort?</p>
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<p>&#8220;In schools, self-esteem boosting is losing favor to rigor, finer-tuned praise,&#8221; by Michael Alison Chandler. 15 January 2012. The Washington Post. Accessed on 17 January 2012.Â <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/in-schools-self-esteem-boosting-is-losing-favor-to-rigor-finer-tuned-praise/2012/01/11/gIQAXFnF1P_story.html">http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/in-schools-self-esteem-boosting-is-losing-favor-to-rigor-finer-tuned-praise/2012/01/11/gIQAXFnF1P_story.html</a></p>
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		<title>Teens Who Learn Healthy Debate Skills More Likely to Resist Peer Pressure</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carol J. Carter]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve ever been in an argument with a teen, it might have felt like anything but productive. However, researchers found that if parents turn the argument from heated to healthy they are providing their kids with critical training they need for handling peer pressure,Â engaging in respectful confrontation, and offering solutions in reassuring ways, according [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">If you&#8217;ve ever been in an argument with a teen, it might have felt like anything but productive. However, researchers found that if parents turn the argument from heated to healthy they are providing their kids with critical training they need for handling peer pressure,Â engaging in respectful confrontation, and offering solutions in reassuring ways, according to the NPR storyÂ <a href="http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2012/01/03/144495483/why-a-teen-who-talks-back-may-have-a-bright-future?ps=cprs" target="_blank">&#8220;Why a Teen Who Talks Back May Have a Bright Future.&#8221; </a><br />
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<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">What does effective arguing look like? The kind of arguing that should be rewarded is calm and persuasive, opposed to arguments with yelling, whining, threats, or insults, says the head of the study Joseph P. Allen. Parents in the study reacted in a variety of ways. The ones that modeled the healthiest reactions were the ones who initiated a discussion with their teen when confronted with a problem. When parents or teens are passive instead of active, problems fester under the surface and often grow greater with time increasing anxiety and stress for all concerned.</p>
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<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">The study also found that students who had calm and persuasive disagreements with their parents were prepared to act the same way when confronted with problems from their peers, like turning down drugs and alcohol, compared to those who didn&#8217;t have constructive arguments with their parents. Teens who practiced constructive arguing with their parents were found to be 40 percent more likely to turn down alcohol and drugs than those who didn&#8217;t argue with their parents.</p>
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<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">Allen says the best way for parents to practice effective arguing is to listen. Whether or not the student or parent agrees with the other one&#8217;s argument, when either one of the arguers makes a good point it should be acknowledged, and the best way to show this is by listening.</p>
<p style="text-indent: 30pt;">Practicing and promoting healthy, respectful debate is a lifelong skill that will serve students in school, college, career and life.Â  Parents who engage in this important, though sometimes hard to initiate, practice will likely produce young adults who are self-assured, able to advocate for what they need, and debate amicably and respectfully with those around them.Â  Where can you as a courageous parent provide an academic coaching opportunity in the car or in your home to demonstrate healthy debate?</p>
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<p>Source:</p>
<p>&#8220;Why A Teen Who Talks Back May Have A Bright Future,&#8221;Â by Patti Neighmond. 3 January 2012. NPR. Accessed on 5 January 2012.Â http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2012/01/03/144495483/why-a-teen-who-talks-back-may-have-a-bright-future?ps=cprs</p>
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